I called CPS on BM
So after finding out that BM knew her new bf was a perv, and discovering the cops won't do shit about it, I called CPS.
BM's daughter was interviewed at school by a social worker, she was staying at her dad's since the night before. My SS14 was home for the day because BM was working and couldn't pick him and his brother up from school. SS14's school is within walking distance but he claims he had to babysit his brother. Although his brother usually babysits their little sister so that made zero sense to me.
So after BM's daughter goes back to her house, BM finds out about the worker talking to her at school. Then 2 things happened...
1) BM (who claims to be a social worker herself) said it was her friend that talked to her at school and it was just for fun
2) BM phoned SS14 at school to have a random convo, SS14 said she phoned him to tell him she bought a new oven and he said it was weird she would call. He said they talked a bit about school and his day. My guess is she was trying to find out if a social worker visited him at school.
So anyway when I found out about the "friend" thing I called CPS back and told them what she said. I said if it is her friend I need someone else assigned to the case. I haven't heard back but I was assured they would make a report.
But the next day BM's daughter's dad asked to get her and BM says she "finally has time off". But I saw her job posted today.
I think BM got fired, but I'm not sure if it's because she's banging someone who is a client or because she is banging someone who is a pervert, or if it's because she has an open investigation, or if it's because she has a conflict of interest...
She's a monster either way
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The Girhippo was ironically a CPS worker and would let any flav of the week play "daddy" unsupervised to the skids, at the time ages 8, 6 and 2, during her online dating phase (pre StepDaddyBigBucks).
She would often let them skip school and stay home alone as well. Of course CPS couldn't care less because the staff is chock full of HCGUBMs and "single divorced soccer moms." (TM). In fact, the Gir's friend, her supervisor, set her ex-husband's house on fire.
She did use her weight as a CPS worker, however, to get Chef placed on the NYS Child Abuser Registry for putting the Animal Torturer (SD) in time out for karate kicking the HousesHitter (YSS) while on visitation at my house. This was done without a hearing because due to a "clerical error" (cough cough), Chef never received the hearing date in the mail. Visitation immediately ceased (which was HEAVEN for me).
Took me an entire year to get the charges labeled "unfounded" which enraged her as she could no longer (falsely) crow about Chef being a child abuser to everyone she came in contact with.
So after finding out that BM
If you felt this was the best thing to do then GOOD! It's too many demons in "nurturing" mom roles
Now that I don't live with my ex's kids anymore hell I might file a CPS report on that miserable c¥nt
Her dumb ass would spend money on trips but leave refrigerator bare and electricities off. Lived next door to a trap house. And left her kids at school functions that sometimes ended in the evenings claiming she was "too tired" to pick them up. And all other sorts of fuckery.
Keep following up and don't let them blow you off. If it's true her friend needs to be recused from case since that sounds like a conflict of interest
You have to do what is in the best interest of the kids
You will have to live with yourself, if something happens to the kids. When you do=id nothing with the knowledge you have. You did your part. You can't help the fact that BM is a loser. Sounds like she's mentally challenged, or on drugs. Unfortunately the kids are going to pay for this craziness.'
Saying this,, you can't devote your life , trying to fix BM life. You, who basically have no intress in BM , or her kids . Can only do so much. You forget the fact that legally. Your interest in SK is the sane as the kid across the street. If you divorce DH. you will never see SK again. You can not go to court for visitation . They can't go after you for support.
I'm so glad you called. I
I'm so glad you called. I hope CPS follows up with BM claiming the SW is a friend. That is just wild.
Good. On. You!
One of my biggest regrets is not calling CPS back when my sis in law's children were young. She was on drugs and brought all sort of dirtbags around niece and nephew. But none of my in laws saw anything wrong with it, and I was afraid to rock the boat.
This is really worth pursuing
This is really worth pursuing. Do not give up. Social workers are not above the law, nor should they be. I can't imagine putting my sexual desires above my children's wellbeing.
What kind of a mother thinks it's even remotely acceptable to bring a pedo around her children. Hasn't occurred to her that he's more interested in her kids than in her?
Going to vomit now...
Is BM still with the perv?
Is BM still with the perv?
What was perv convicted of?
Do you have copies of his conviction AND how long he was in the brink?
As far as I know they are
As far as I know they are still together, BM claims she doesn't believe the charges.
He is not convicted, he was arrested for child pornography and intent to distribute. His bail was posted and he was put on conditions until court date.
-cannot be around 16 & under
-cannot attend places that 16 & under congregate
-cannot be around ex and her daughter (the one he took pictures of)
-cannot be around his son (with ex) without supervision
-cannot reside anywhere other than resident registered with the court (which is not BM's)
Some other ones I can't remember now.
I went to his court date and the judge allowed him another court date to get a court appointed lawyer. Presumably after that they will schedule another court date for their hearing. I heard the crown is seeking imprisonment after that court date.
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So he's out on ail and has
So he's out on bail and has already violated the conditions, several of them...
Has anyone reported this guy
Has anyone reported this guy to law enforcement??!!? This is an unsafe situation for ALL these children!! Why is everyone letting their kids be at BMs??! F THAT!! Your DH and ex stepdad should be in an uproar!
DH and I have both contacted
DH and I have both contacted the police separately and also filed a joint report after SS14 told us his Mom got a promotion and would be "working more hours and making a bunch more money" (I'm not sure if I forgot to mention some people saw a tiktok video of BM with her pervy boyfriend showing off the crack they'd just cooked)
I know The StepDads gf called the police too. I'm pretty sure I'm the only one who has called CPS and I will keep calling until that little girl is removed.
The problem is that we have some stupid fucking law here that allows perverts to be around children if one of the parents is aware of the conditions and grants permission, and doesn't allow them to be left alone.
And the police say things like "well we can't prove he's staying overnight there" even though they could easily do a no knock warrant and find him there.
That's insane. And what would
That's insane. And what would happen if you refused BMs visitation?
No perves involved, but my DW
No perves involved, but my DW called CPS on her own parents. They had moved 5hrs away, left my SIL (then 15)_ home alone, no money, no food, the house was a pit that would have made a huge episode of Horders. Rodent infested, etc, etc, etc...
CPS responded to my DW by telling her that at 15yo SIL could get a job and feed herself, if the house was dirty, she could clean it.
One of several incidents that put CPS and many other social worker type organizations in SpermLand on our wothrless POS people list.
These jobs, long with being a LEO, etc.. need to have such tight control over the standards of those who can get the job that if anyone has so much as released mustard seed sized fart in public they are DQd. Instead of the people like so many STalkers have in their lives who are CPS or social workers.
I include a number of my IL clan in this category. My crook lying POS SIL is a teachers aid and works full time for the school district in my DW's home town. My BIL1's bovine bride is also a teachers aid in the school district though she is only part time. If I were a parent, I would be all over ending their employement anywhere near my kid like stink on the shit that my SIL and BIL1's bovine bride are.