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Haircuts..... I know it's silly....

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Hi step universe. I have a really strange question... per my previous blogs I am a step mom (not married yet but still) and my fiance's daughter has never had her hair cut and she is 11. Her mom refuses to take her to get one because she says she is "too young" however, he pays her a hefty sum every month for child support and alimony. Now I know that she can use the alimony the way she wants but in my mind child support should cover things like that am I right? 

 

My boyfriend always wants me to watch his kids so he can go coach basketball

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I have been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years now, I have 2 kids of my own that are 18 (obvioulsy an adult) and a 16 year old. They are clearly self sufficient. He is always leaving his kids with me (which he shares custody of them 1 week on 1 week off) because he is a high school basketball coach. I don't mind helping out every now and again but I have my own kids I need to worry about.

My boyfriends son is ruining our relationship because I know he has ADHD but the dad doesn't want to see it

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OK, this is my first time doing something like this and I just didn't know who to talk too so I figured I would give this a try and see if maybe it's just me that was looking too much into this so here it goes....