Ok... I was very excited to find this because I have to vent someone other than my fiance.
Long story, short...

My fiance has a son who is 5 years old. He has never had any rights to the boy. BM's mom was cheating on him while pregnant and they split. her fling has been raising the boy since he was born. we have been together two years and are about to get married. All of a sudden he has a itch to get visitation of the boy. which i supported until i met the little boy and all the drama is mom brings. The little one is very high strung, violent, rude and lies very badly.