Hmm something is going on. Not too sure as to what, but DH is being polite. We actually had a conversation today. Not about anything with substance (taxes) but it had more words in it than we have spoken to eachother in the last 2 weeks combined.

He still cooked dinner for HIS children (and me) but this time I actually helped do dishes. Normally I don't because I don't eat with him and the skids. I ate the dinner, so I will help with the clean up.

So earlier in the day, he left for a doctors appt. Instead of saying that he was just leaving he said he was leaving and gave a time frame for when he would be back. Hmmm getting weird.

Now he is not getting any better with the skiddos. But maybe this is a start. He gives a little - I will give a VERY TINY little. He starts giving a little with the the skids THEN I will start giving a little.

There is one other scenior I forgot to mention in yesterdays post. In our 9 years together, we have never went more than a few weeks w/o intimacy. We are now approaching week 4 - with no hugs, no kisses (even on the cheek)not even holding hands. And we have been the type of couple to kiss 3 times every morning, every time we left each other, and every night. We constantly held hands and were an affectionate couple.

But no more. SO maybe he is missing that. I personally have enough anger still in me to hold out for awhile longer!