I need some answers because I'm at my wits end!! I've been married 7 years, have 3 kids. About 2 years ago my DH was able to get his daughter back in his life after 8 years. (Mom ran) so she's been living with us since last June, first few months were great.. but, now the past few months have been nothing but pure hell. I'm miserable, she's 12 but has so many issues she needs counseling. She's jealous of my 9 year old, if my younger 2 are being mean to her or bothering her to make her mad their 7&4 she hits, pushes & calls them names.