BFs imaginary "rights" and court is in 2 weeks
Ok, so BF has no legal custody of the kids. Only visitation. If something is going on BF needs to know about I email him, otherwise I don't talk to him. Any and every contact he will turn into how he is so much better then everyone.
He has never understood his "right" end where another's beginning.
We have court in 2 weeks. Guess who shows up at BSs school yesterday for the first time in 2 yrs???? I told the front office I don't have a problem with lunches or releasing grades to BF the schools require this is writing from me to cover their own butts as he has no legal custody.
BF has it in his head I should report to him. Sorry, his phone works just like mine. I have given the school permission to talk to you. Call them yourself.
Amazing, our DD has been in speech for 6 yrs, he has never contacted the therapist. DD has had an IEP for 5 years, he has never spoken to the special Ed department.
BS has been at this school for 2 years, and BF has never contacted them. But now court is 2 weeks away and he is going to drop in.
BF emails me how he has just as many rights as I do and he can do whatever I can. The school don't need my permission... I ALMOST said ok, if you have all these tights and don't need my permission then I withdrawal my permission, try without it. But no matter what he has in his head, I'm not a bitch. All I told BF is as long as it doesn't disrupt BSs day or any of the classes then I am fine with it.
Seriously, what does BF not get?? I do not report to him, me having sole legal custody is because he is impossible to work with and has NEVER been involved.
If there was no court coming up and BF did this, I would be thrilled... He finally cares!!!! But no, always a hidden meaning.
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Reminds me of my ex. We've
Reminds me of my ex. We've been divorced since 07. He called me on Thursday to express his concerns about dd13's current private school placemwnt and things that worried him. I mentioned that even though, yes, they are taking time out of class right now to work on the Christmas play and I still thought that that was valuable work and learning - even though les academic. I told him that even though the classes were being shuffled she was still receiving more instruction and privae instruction than she would at a public school with 35 kids in each class. He agreed. ( the entire school has about 50 kids). Most classes have 7 kids and pached classes have 20 kids.
He kept telling me his concern si I asked if he'd ever reached out to the principal , let him know she's very responsive and true to encourage HIM to talk to her. Not me. I also told him that if he wanted a more academic program, he was free to research other private schools - I had most of the info for local schools- but they will all be much more expensive but if it's something he wanted, apps are due in February and we could also apply for financial aid at that time.
Thst pretty much shut him up.
He can complain. But he won't go out if his way to look into anything.
I have sole legal custody.
I have sole legal custody. Period. Full school, medical, religious... Dad has 3 weekends a month.