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Submitted by bjmoore17 on Tue, 10/05/2010 - 9:55am

My bf's ex-wife is somewhat on the nutty side. She makes up things about us and tells the kids. The kids are subjected to her anger and the 14 year old (the oldest) is showing signs of rage as well. The youngest, 6 years old, told us that Emily (14 year old) kicks holes in the wall "all the time". We asked him why she does this and he said she is "mad a mommy". The ex is also addicted to prescription pain medication, not prescribed to her (of course:) She tells my bf that she will file a domestic violence charge on him if he doesn't do certain things her way.

Kids Mom Had "diluted" Drug Screen

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Submitted by bjmoore17 on Thu, 09/16/2010 - 8:33pm

My bf took his ex to court last week and she had to take a drug test. The results came back as "diluted". I wasn't sure what this meant exactly, so I asked one of the pharmacists that I work with and she said that the ex either drank a bunch of fluids before the test to try to make a negative result or she actually added water to the sample in the bathroom. There are a few other more scientific reasons whey the test could have came back diluted, but knowing what I know about this woman, I'm sure she has tried to make her results show negative.

My BF's 14 yr old daughter is a BRAT

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Submitted by bjmoore17 on Tue, 09/07/2010 - 12:37pm

My bf's 14 yr old daughter is such a brat but it's not entirely her fault. Her mother puts things in her head about me and she repeats it to her father. She has said that I am a bad mother and I don't have anything to do with my son. I don't know why they say horrible things about me because I have never spoken to her mother and I have been nothing but good to his children. I took pictures of this girls middle school prom and put them together as a digital album and sent them to her. I also picked up an Ed Hardy Tshirt for her just because I thought she would like it and she did.

Son never knew his other family

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Submitted by bjmoore17 on Thu, 06/24/2010 - 1:31pm

My son's biological father has not been around since he was 2 years old. He will be 12 next month. We have had no contact with him or his family in 10+ years and it has been wonderful.
However, for some reason, my son's grandmother decided to send me a "friend" request on Facebook. Like I would actually accept that. I started to ignore it, but then I took it as an opportunity to let her know what I thought of her and her family.

Kids are not disciplined @ BioMom's house

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Submitted by bjmoore17 on Mon, 06/21/2010 - 10:41am

I am not married yet, but I have a wonderful man that I am dating and he happens to have three children. We had his 6 year old son this weekend and he wasn't so bad, but all of his kids are so ill mannered. They don't know how to behave at the table at all. They basically do not listen to anything and they throw fits when they don't get their way, not to mention the whining EVERY time they ask...no wait...demand for something.