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Embarrassed..changing doctors

Black.Cat's picture

I am considering changing my DD1's pediatrician. I love the doctor, she is great, has amazing advice, and in any other circumstances I would keep her as my DD doctor for as long as possible. However SS19, ss13 and ss10 have the same doctor. They have a lot of pretend problems, they are "hurting" in places with no bruises or strained muscles, they hear voices and see people (SS18, SS13). BM continually asks for the doc to look at SS13 penis because she is convinced something is wrong "It is so small :jawdrop: "(I have never seen or want to see obviously). I really could go on and on.

Anyway...I am embarrassed. I do not want my daughter associated with them. I don't. If I believed for even half the time these kids actually had a problem I would be ok with it. But they don't. So if she is getting tired of seeing our last name on her patient list (And she has to be at this point). Then will she really take care of DD1 the way she should be taking care of? Or think this is another black.cat family problem?

I am thinking of talking to DH. And I think I will be completely honest and say the skids and their problems real or faked are embarrassing. And I want DD to have a doctor that will look at her outside of the chaos/mess that are the skids.

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kathc's picture

It might be better for you if you stay with this dr. You like her, she's great...and she will learn that YOU and your dh are normal, good parents. She will definitely know bm is the nutter. If bm ever tries claiming you're hurting the skids (as a lot of them do) then having the skids Doctor know you and your dd could benefit you,

robin333's picture

^^^Agree! Great idea anotherstep!! Since daddy can clean and put away SD'S sex toys, now mom can show DS how to put on a pull on penis.

Tuff Noogies's picture

it was deleted i believe.

unreal how little regard she has for her daughter's safety, both physical and mental. but she'll get her way, dammit, regardless of the cost - how ignorant.

Tuff Noogies's picture

chase the midol with a shot of fireball and get it ON with dh tonight! sounds like you need all three Wink Wink Wink }:) Blum 3

robin333's picture

No Tommar. A little penis is a sad thing. Even sadder if the boy heard mom say it. Hopefully, Gimlet is right and he will have growth over the next few years.

WokeUpABug's picture

Ok I'm a doctor and I will tell you, I would stay put. We absolutely have opinions about patients, but the definition of being professional is we don't let those opinions discourage us from giving top quality care. But even if you are worried about this, just because you share a last name with BM, I doubt you are seen as guilty by association. The pediatrician is probably WELL aware how crazy BM is and that she's made her kids crazy too. If you're not crazy I don't see why she'd lump you with them. If anything she may feel a bit sorry for you! Anyway if I was getting great care I wouldn't change docs.