I am new to posting blogs, but I have been at this website for awhile. And i would like to thank all of u lovely ladies for helping me (even though u did not know u were). I thought I could make this work, this whole blended family thing. I thought after my childhood, I know what kids want/need. And I was so totally wrong. I never knew people/kids could be so selfish/rude/unappreciative before this. And they could get away with it because after all...THERE JUST KIDS! I grew up with an alcoholic mother and no father...Picture creepy guys outlines saluted from the hallway light. I was always able to protect (to a certain extent) my little sister from the hell that was our life. Every time I talk to her now I warn her to not get with a man that has kids. EVER.I would never want her to feel the way I do most of the time.