So, BM had been pretty consistent in texting SS every day. She would ask him what he was doing, and almost every day ask him if she can take him to lunch. SS avoided that question for about a week and a half and then finally told her that she would need to work it out through grandpa (her dad) because he still has to be there for visits. She told him she would call him and see when is a good time. The constant contact lasted for a few weeks. Since before Christmas. The conversation about needing to talk to her dad about lunch happened a little over a week ago.

In that same conversation, BM FINALLY apologized to SS. She told him that she knows she has made a lot of mistakes and she is "so sorry". SS didn't really "accept" her apology, he fired back with a question "Is 'Meth man' still in your life". She said "not really, but we I do see him I promise you, we are both sober". SS just said "Ok, if that is true, then I am proud of you, you need to get your life together so we can have a relationship again". IT's basically been crickets since then. Very little contact.

First- That is the FIRST time she has apologized to SS. She has never even began to take any sort of responsibility for what she has done to him. Nothing is ever her fault.
Second- She lied. She sees Meth Man often. He is back to staying with her in her camper. Her stepmom told me this on Saturday. So I know it is current info.
Third- Since this text, she has gone back to texting him once every few days.

She got her approval from her kid, he is "proud" of her. (well of what she TELLS him is true). She will disappear for a while. This is VERY typical.

A few more tidbits- She has 2 warrants out for her arrest. She does have a car, but she can't drive it. No insurance, and no one WILL insure her. Her tags are expired and her license is currently suspended.

She posted on FB on New Years Eve asking where the check points are. She told her dad and stepmom that she was "asking for a friend". Hahahahaah, and her dad believed her.

She sucks at life.