counting down the hours until these monsters go home. i know that i do not exactly love them coming over to start with but my db makes it worst. don't get me wrong he does discipline a little but it just pisses me off that he makes excuses for their behavior. like seriously just accept the fact that ur kids have hardly any respect for u are any kind of authority.
he says well look at their moma! i mean yeah she is garbage but if he would just quit with the part time daddy syndrome it would be better and stop making excuses and start taking action shit.
i mean his almost 7 year old lied to his face and got busted and did he punish her? nope not for long enough and she was in the room ALONE but get this with the damn tv on.
what is up with these loser dads? i mean these kids are still young and i dunno how long i can take this crap. like if a man would come up to me and offer me everything my current bf does minus the step kids i would leave soooo quick.
and to top it all off i will not go anywhere as a"family" when the kids are here because i find it embarrassing. i mean from the way they act to everything. i mean i am afraid ppl will think that they are my kids. i love my bf but i cannot find a balance with these kids. as someone said u think u have it under control and then u get a weekend from hell.
can i ever truly enjoy the kids coming over? i don't think he will ever be firm enough to keep them on their best behavior. i think that we will always have these weekends where he doesn't want to be soo strict and lets them do. how should i approach him when he thinks that he is doing a great job? yet in my eyes he is a sucker