Yesterday I got a Happy Mother's Day text from SD20 who Ive also referred to as favorite skid. She's probably my favorite because she's never home...also she is so damn funny. She's a sweet girl but very irresponsible, blames everyone for her problems and is always telling poor me stories to explain her shortcoming...ok after describing her in words almost sounds like I dont like her but I do wish her the best and wish she'd get her act together. Her & I aren't super close but she comes to me when she needs something and uses me to manipulate her dad if she wants something and I often oblige cuz DH is hard on her but not the rest of the skids which has always confused me...and other family sees it too.

Back to the weird text. "Happy mothers day, i tried to tag you in a post but it wouldnt let me". Then we exchanged love you texts. More than SD16 says to me in a month haha. Later I saw on facebook that she had a happy mothers day to all of her mother figures with over a dozen people tagged, her mom that abandoned her as a teen + a bunch of aunts. Apparently thats the text she wanted to tag me in but I dont believe that she did. Im not sure why she would leave me out but send me the text in private. I dont believe BM is jealous of me. BM loves that I take care of her kids while her & her husband vacation, see movies, have their evenings free. Not too hurt but just confused if she wanted to leave me out why text me to bring it up? Theres no reason facebook wouldnt tag me like she said.