OK spelling will not be that good cause i am so darn mad, just have to vent... i have tried my hardest ... i do everything for everyone in this house and him being there father and me the stepmom....lol well....lets just say we agree on rules sit down talk to the kids, explaine.....were all in agreement 10 mins. later here comes 16 year old asking for something we all just said no on.... low and behold.... it's like i am slapped in the face... he lets him do it while i am saying no means no...rules are just that rules is wasnt 5 mins. ago we all agreed on this!@! ... he lets him go ...