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Boiling Point

cnaweston's picture

My ss is 11 going on 30. He is non stop trying to run the house and is always running his mouth. He has adhd and no discipline. He tells me to shut up and tells me what he is and isn't going to do and im to my breaking point. I can't keep telling my gf how awful her child is but it seems like that's all I do. I have no authority what so ever cause if I say anything he runs to his dad and WW3 breaks out. I dread going home cause I know im gonna have to deal with him and Idk what to do anymore. My ss doesn't listen to his mother doesn't listen to me and his bf let's him get away with murder. His bf wont correct him unless what he's doing interferes with his ability to hear the tv. So we have an uncaring father and a mother who has done everything but beat my ss and he still acts up. Im at my wits end. I don't know what to do anymore. Im close to just throwing in the towel cause I can't take it anymore

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what-was-I-thinking's picture

Is the kid on meds? or in counseling? It sounds like the kid just needs his ass beat!! My skid has adhd & I kept pushing my DH for YEARS to get the kid meds. The only reason he was put on meds is because he was failing in school. Good luck!

cnaweston's picture

he was on adhd meds until his retarded father messed up the insurance form so they dont have insurance and the meds are like 300 a month so he hasnt been on meds for like 3 months. and he needs his ass beat at least once a day. i get that adhd makes him wanna bounce of the walls but it does not make you be disrespectful. im just sick of it, im wanna hit him so bad but i cant cause he aint my kid