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its always my fault

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Submitted by cnaweston on Fri, 08/12/2011 - 3:16am

So I told my DW my issues with ss11 and what does she do? Tells me its my fault. I haven't earned their respect. Really??? Im so tired of everything always being my fault. I have completely given up I really don't know how much more I can take. My heart is broken. All im asking for is a little respect is that so bad. I dint see how I got turned into the step parent from hell. Im very good to both the kids and I've never even raised my voice to them. I don't see this relationship lasting much longer if DW doesn't see that her little angels aren't so perfect

Disengaging- im so excited

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Submitted by cnaweston on Tue, 08/09/2011 - 11:53pm

Wow after reading a about how to disengage i am excited to go home!!! its been a long time since ive said that. im sure my DW will have an issue cause im not gonna help her with the kids like i was but maybe eventually she will get the picture that i am done. after reading the story on disengaging it got me thinking, we just took the kids on vacation to see my DWs dad and we took the kids. well while on the trip my sd10 said she wasnt glad i came on the trip and my ss11 was a little ahole.

Im tired of being mad

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Submitted by cnaweston on Tue, 08/09/2011 - 1:15am

i am not an angry person but it seems like im angry all the time now. even when im at work im angry and its all due to my ss11. i just dont understand how my sd10 can be so sweet and caring and my ss11 can be a complete ass. i love being around my sd cause she listens and minds so well. other than she likes to ask why when told to do something i have no problem with her. i need some advice because i dont like being so negative all the time. i dont wanna resent my ss but i do because he is ruining my relationship. i mean how many times can i complain to my gf before we fight.

Boiling Point

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Submitted by cnaweston on Sun, 08/07/2011 - 6:53pm

My ss is 11 going on 30. He is non stop trying to run the house and is always running his mouth. He has adhd and no discipline. He tells me to shut up and tells me what he is and isn't going to do and im to my breaking point. I can't keep telling my gf how awful her child is but it seems like that's all I do. I have no authority what so ever cause if I say anything he runs to his dad and WW3 breaks out. I dread going home cause I know im gonna have to deal with him and Idk what to do anymore. My ss doesn't listen to his mother doesn't listen to me and his bf let's him get away with murder.