can a 10 year old mentially abuse you????
I have a 10 year old and a 6 year old, and i was woundering if they could mentlay abuse me? the reason i ask this is beacuse as time go's on i really feel like i am loseing my mind it has even come down to me alomost puting myself away, i really feel like they don't want me here( i have been takeing care of them for 6 years) I feel like they would be happier if i just went off and killed my self.
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I think it's possible for
I think it's possible for anyone to mentally abuse anyone in certain circumstances. I also believe that a certain level of paranoia can probably make you feel that they don't want you around and want you to kil yourself. Either way, I think therapy would help you figure it out and possibly get out of the situation if it's too much for you.
there mom tells them i meen
there mom tells them i meen to them and im a bad person, im going to take there daddy away stuff like that, she always has
I am sorry you feel this way;
I am sorry you feel this way; it is a horrible feeling. I have been with mine for 11 years and although I don't feel as bad as you may right now; I do feel like she wishes I would just go away. But I don't think it's just SK; my own son makes me feel that way from time to time. My husband isn't abuse of anything, but sometimes he's a bit too sarcastic - if you get my point! and my BS9 treats me like he does and it just breaks my heart. I try to tell him it is not okay to treat women/anyone this way. it helps sometimes.... but.
As long as you realize you are not a bad person; that's the important thing!!
Oh, please see your doctor or
Oh, please see your doctor or a counselor right away, these feelings are not good (been there, done that)...
thanks every one, things
thanks every one, things havent gotten any better, it's just geting worse, i tryed to get help but i don't have the money and dont have any inshurince, so no one would see me, i even told the front desk at one place that i wasnt doing well and i might hurt my self.
oh honey you really should
oh honey you really should not be feeling that way.Somedays i feel very unappriciated and unloved by my own son let alone skids.But jst teach them that u need them to be kind to and respect u.Stand ur ground but also dont let them get to u to bad.easy said then done.kids at this age done really understand the consequences of their actions.hang in MoM to mom..it will all work out.:)
Don't you dare hurt yourself
Don't you dare hurt yourself honey!!!!!!!! It is so not worth it, to let them get to you dear.
Sometimes when I am down I just go ahead and have a drink, which I rarely do, just to kind of blow it all out, maybe cry a little - it really helps. Do you have any girlfriends you can share a 6-pack with?!!! HUGS
my husbend and i moved to s.c
my husbend and i moved to s.c in feb. and we dont know anyone at all(he dose he knows guys from work) but i dont know antone, im home all the time, i don't drive, somw times its two weeks befor i get to go to the store. i'v tryed to meet people but im kinda shy so its hard for me.
we moved to s.c in feb and i
we moved to s.c in feb and i don't drive so i don't know anyone, anyone at all i don't even go to the store but once a week some times it more them that befor i leave the house.
There was a member here who
There was a member here who recently lost his wife, the SM, to suicide. Maybe he can help? Gosh I wish I could remember his name...
The poster was Danigirl and
The poster was Danigirl and he changed it to herewegoagain - very insightful he is and what a loss he had to endure!!
Maybe i will try to message
Maybe i will try to message him, i cant stand feeling like this anymore, it just never seems to get better and im not doing doing my own kids (i have a 2 year old and a 6 mo. old with my husband) any good feeling like this. i have seen myself cuting my self off from everyone in the house and no matter how hard i try i cant stop. no matter what i do i can't stop thinking things that i know i shouldn't. and my husbeand dosen't understand all he says is, it's not that bad, or something like you'll get over it, he's never felt this way befor so i can't relly ask him to understand. he says he dose but, idk what ever i geuss. im trying to hang in there, for my kids, but every time i look at my 6 mo. old i want to cry cuz i could even think about leaveing her and my son. but them some time's i think it's for the best tht i did leave them, then i wouldn't have a chane to mess up there live's, idk, thanks every one for eing there for me, i'm going to go to bed, i'll be back on in a day or two. thanks agin.