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OK, for those of you who have read my blogs, you know that my DH's grandmother83 lives with us. Not my decision. I am married to him, I signed up for SM world with SS5, and apparently that also means having DH's entire family force GM on us.

GM insists on making comments about DH's parenting of SS5. This irks my nerves to no end. The second I have a baby and she tries to give me advice, she is in for a world of fucking hurt.

Feeling bad for DH - How do we combat PAS?

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DH and SS were in SS's bedroom playing video games and playing with SS's extensive hoard of matchbox cars. SS asked when will he be going home to BM. DH explained to SS that he is with us all weekend this weekend. Tomorrow is SS's birthday party, and DH told him if he goes home then he can't have a party.

SS still said he wants to see his BM. DH asked him what does he have at BM's house that he doesn't have here. SS said he has more cars at BM's. Since tomorrow is the party, he will be getting plenty more cars, I can promise that.

Star Wars Day

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I know I am a huge dork, but I just wanted to wish all the folk on here, a Happy Star Wars Day!

This is one of the little things that make me smile every year.

May the Fourth be with you. Biggrin

What should be in a CO?

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I know another user posted about this last week, but I can't find the blog. DH has a very vague CO from what I can tell. It just lists when visitation is and that he needs to pay child support.

I think he and Bm should at least go to mediation and get some things put in there regarding health insurance for one. There is no mention of it in the CO and BM uses that as a way to make sure we can't take SS to the doctor. He has asked her several times for a copy of the card, and she keeps saying she will get it to him, but never has.

Frustrated or Why doesn't he listen (long)

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I have had a rough week or so. DH and I had a huge blow up last week. I told him how I am beginning to resent him, because I am always having to help him take care of his family. On the weekends, I help him take care of SS4, and now on a daily basis, I do the cooking and cleaning for his GM83 who moved in with us.

The Weekend

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This weekend went well. I was worried how SS4 would react to having GM83 living with us now. SS was able to tolerate the crazy woman. At dinner saturday night, GM decided she would try to get SS to talk to her. SS is a good eater and that is the only thing he wants to do when food is in front of him. His goal is to clear his plate as quick as possible so that he can get back to playing.

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