So this is our weekend with all the skids SD10, SD6, SS7 the SS7 lives with us and stays with us this weekend along with his sisters. My husband is never home on saturdays until 4:30 5pm, So not only do I have to do all the cooking and cleaning up after, taking care of 6 kids, but 3 of them are disrespectful, hyper, spiteful and devious little MONSTERS. So while I spend my saturday (which is my BD's 10th birthday), cooking-cleaning-playing referee-protecting my two youngest sons from the cruelty of their supposed "siblings"-dealing with attitude and sarcastic insults from my skids. Having only my father and my aunt over for cake for my BD's birthday, but then I get to deal with the angry little monsters jealousy of what my daughter get for her birthday and have to deal with whe whining baby drama.....But guess what I wiil feel good this year because i'm getting my BD anything she wants this year, she only gets gifts from me anyway her BF is not around my husbands family barely even notices it's her birthday, and the skids are OVERLY spoiled by my IL's. But when it comes to the other kids my Bkids, 2 of which are my husbands (3yoBS&1yoBS) it's not even comparable. But still his kids always make a big dramatic thing about it especially SD10.......such a jealous drama queen.....but when she is given 5 times the amount of gifts as anyone else no one says a word not even my BD. My poor BD wonders why my MIL.....who she thinks is her Bio grandma, doesn't ever send her a card or write her letters or express her love like she (MIL) does for her other 3 grandchildren, My BS's will probably wonder the same thing when they are older.........Just another lovely aspect of having SKIDS!!!!!!!BUT this year will be different for birthdays and for christmas........hey the SKIDS get from 2 houses anyway they don't need to get as much as my kids get,besides the IL's make sure those kids get way more, screw that!!!!I'm tired of my BD not being able to get what she wants for christmas because we can't afford it for ALL of them(just his other 3) and it turns out they get it any way from BM or IL's anyway and my BD gets shit once again!!!!!!!!!!!!!!Well i'm done with my kids getting the shitty end of the stick year after year, me and my family plays it fair and equal, well F*@k that,NO MORE those Skids are so mean rude and ungreatful, what does that show my bkids be bad and get everything you want...be good and get shit but still be greatful.....!!!!!!!!!!!Well we will see what shit this stirs up with my husband he HATES when I buy anything for my BD but he pretends like it doesn't bother him oh well, you don't like it there is the door I AM FED UP WITH THE SHIT FROM YOUR KIDS!!!! It feels so good to get it out.