Okay, I'm 3 months out from marrying an amazing man. He's not perfect as no one is, and myself included, but is overall wonderful. The issue I've got is I can't seem to settle as well are prepping for our marriage and his ex wife gets more and more invasive with me. To start, she used to be invited to every family holiday and my fiancé would take her daughter one night a week. Of course once I joined the mix things became complex. BM at first acted polite, but would do the equivalent of what is call emotionally pissing all over me.