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An update of sorts...

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My last (and first) post was pretty negative and filled with worry. Since then we have been through a lot of ups and downs but not has progress been made.

I talked to my partner about my post and the comments and explained to him what I was feeling. We talked about everything and agreed on things we could work on to reduce stress and encourage a more positive situation.

The HCBMs family got involved and told her to stop with her lies as she was having a detrimental impact on the kids lives. After this she agreed to sign our proposal of 50/50 contact.

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How do people do this?

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I'm recently 25. I had a lot of plans for what I was going to do with my life and then I met someone at work. We've been together for about a year and a half and I've been told that we have been through more crap in that time than my friends who have been together for 10 years.

I never expected to be with someone who has kids but it wasn't an idea that scared me. And rightly so. What should have scared me was the prospect of having my life controlled by someone who wasn't in it but adjacent to it, the ex (BM).

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