Where do I start, I have evil, manipulative, spoilt step sons. I am going to post a message about me to his father that is absolutely disgusting. This person is now 21 and I have been his step mum since he was 9. A little back ground is that him and his older brother, just as bad or maybe a little worse over the years but now moved out thank god. They stayed with myself and my husband for a week then back at their mothers for a week. If they were in trouble at our place their morher would say you don't have to go back to your fathers if your in trouble then demand more child support. So my husband who is a narcissist (a whole other story) and obsest with money. Let it go and wouldn't discipline his sons in fear of paying more child support. I have been in the picture since they were 9 and 11 but my husband has been separated then divorced since they were 1 and 3, so these kids have learnt to manipulate both parents all of their lives. 
gettjng to the latest and why I decided to join this group. I am ready to just walk away! 
Due to covid19 I have advised the 21 year old that his girlfriend is only permitted to stay over at our home twice a week, that's the rule during the pandemic. He accepted it and now hasn't. This is the messages that he sent to his father after one of my daughters (that are all living out of home) had a baby last week and one of my girl friends came around to celebrate with me (we shared one bottle of wine and she stayed for 2 hours and left) I couldn't go to the hospital or see my new grandson at the time. Just putting you in the picture. 
 

Grow a pair and call it dad for f.... sake. 

..........s got her mate here getting on this piss. I had dinner, went down stairs but I sat on the stairs cause I heard they were talking about coronavirus restrictions and of course (I knew)  ......... would bring up the Girlfriend thing. Talked herself up like she was some queen, "I don't care about them" "it's a f....... joke". "S.......hasn't said anything and it's stayed like it" blah blah f........ blah. "All my kids know her" .. couldn't hear the rest because she whispered it. But I swear to god Tomorrow night there will be another blow up because I'm that over the stupid slut. Double f.........standards. 

What's the difference if she's allowed a friend over?

No worries, I'll have 2 of the boys here tomorrow night having a few drinks. State government said its allowed. 

I wish you would f.... her off already

then my husband replied with this;

L..... her daughter hurt her back & went to hospital & Her other daughter just had the baby so I would assume they were talking about that & we will address the people coming over arrangement later  I don't know y u r so upset Your girlfriend is still coming over.

then the step son L replied with the below ;

I don't care about her family. 

I was there listening to what they were saying and I heard it clearly. She doesn't give a f.... and nor do I. 

Because it's double standards. Read the essay I sent you last weekend. She says one thing and does the other

1. No ones allowed over. Nek Minute her friends over getting on the piss
2. She just can't be wrong. It's f........shit staying at someone else's house 5 nights a week. 

F....wits legit tearing your family apart. There's no way I'll be coming over to visit when I move out. And B.....been her once since his moved out. 

You'll be more then welcome to come around anytime by yourself though. No she's not my stepmother she's a twat.

What the hell !! This is the sought of disrespectful shit I have been putting up with for so long. I am my wits end. Any advise