Where do I start, I have evil, manipulative, spoilt step sons. I am going to post a message about me to his father that is absolutely disgusting. This person is now 21 and I have been his step mum since he was 9. A little back ground is that him and his older brother, just as bad or maybe a little worse over the years but now moved out thank god. They stayed with myself and my husband for a week then back at their mothers for a week. If they were in trouble at our place their morher would say you don't have to go back to your fathers if your in trouble then demand more child support.