They know you are on to them.

Don't worry. They are scared, but they play a good game.

You got this. Be strong.

You recorded them once, you can do it again.

There were lots of great ideas about how to go about this: nanny cams, spy devices, your own phone. There are devices that will record and it will be stored in the DVR for future play back.

You got this.

Deep breath~!

A few words...get the he11 out of that situation. I know everyone, me included, wants their kids to have an intact family, but is this really a great environment for your child to grow up in?

How did they get your phone? And they sound pretty creepy, "Do you really think you can go against us?", looking thru your phone, it is like they are a little cult and you are the outcast they are trying to intimidate back into submission. I am sorry you have to deal with this. I would hate them too and feel so defeated and desperate for alleviation of the drama they cause. They sound like such bitchy little bullies, and they are a team and you are all alone. I'd be doing whatever I had to do to expose them. They are obviously smart and know to be on guard due to their manipulative natures, so you have to play smarter, somehow, someway.

So record them again? Or can you just wait til dinner one night and bring up how this one or that one was saying how ugly you and the baby were? Ideally, I would try and do it when one of the girls is alone-perhaps she wont be so brave without back up.

But, I also would have huge problems havign a spouse that would not even consider the truth to this. My ss would say and do snarky things to me and the other kids when dh wasnt present. He had a hard time believing it. And that's exactly what he said-it wasnt necessarily that he didnt believe it, but then he didnt totally buy it either because he just never saw it. My ss got sloppy, heck he was just a little kid, and started letting some stuff fly in dh's presence. That's all it took, just once, for dh to realize he definitely believed it.

If your dh is in the other room, when the kids say something snarky to you, I'd very loudly say, "Excuse me? Did you just say I was a nasty bitch

Crew

Is this for real?

OMG I thought it was a crew too! Sounded soooo bizarre!

After you record them. Like right after. Email it to Your email address. Change your email address password ti simething theyd never think of. Go to Radio Shack they have this little sensors you can put on your doorframe to your bedroom that beeps Really loud when anyone goes in!!! Get yourself some nannycams!!! Like printo!! Someone on here got them cause her SS was sneaking & stealing stuff at night. Sge found a real good deal on them!!!

Hang in there!! Personally Id Win that war! & I know alot of ppl told you that you might catch flack from your DH by recording them--- could you find a marital counselor (i highly suggest a church minister) & unveil your evidence there? With a counselor present? Would he go? Thatsy be a great avenue. I say minister cause they highly believe spouse comes first.
Theres been quite a few of us on here where out DHs Listened & got it. Didnt pass judgement on us & are working to make it better. I believe your silly DH just doesnt realize how bad it truly has gotten & he Needs to know!!!!

If he doesnt believe you- then Id leave & use my recordings to prove i wouldnt want my child around those girls!!! It may help you attain full custody too!!!!! Best of luck & hang in there. You may wanna consider listening devices. Heck when they are being shitty to you- you could also bring up All the other times they hv done it-- theyll think you arent recording it-- & will spill their guts that theyve been doing it for quite some time!!! Then. Take it to daddy-o!!!!

My thought, who talks like that sounds like stepford kids which in my mind 3 blogs in 24 hours that just get more bizarre without a whole lot of build up, not even a good crew at this point just spewing weirdness right away. If it's real she'll stick around, if not she's gone like everyone who is called out.