My SD finally lft this saturday brought friends over and moved everything out..Dad confronted her about a diary we found detailing when she would go out with friends she would get F'ed up so what does that mean? I though either drugs or alcohol..she said "oh dad i just wrote that for the hell of it we all do that...i wouldn't do drugs or alcohol so that was it he fell for it...I just said that's it you believe her? then he turned it around said why do you judge her without having solid proof?

I went to see my family in NY in order to get away from all the toxic garbage at home. Came back and my husband was actually being nice, I decided not to bring up the subject about his daughter since we all know that she is to leave by June. All of a sudden it was brought up and we were so angry with each other and he went on to say since he is not sure about having his daughter live with her best friend's mom (mom is not aware of what her own daughter does) that he might be moving out with her since there is no other way.

Well after my SD being out for 3 months it has been wonderful but my husband had moved out also to be with her we're trying parenting classes and counseling, first i'm going , then husband and I , eventually with her. His lease will be up in August when and if things go well they are coming back to the house. Has anyone been through something similar? Separation then try it again one more time? It's such a confusing period and has put strain on the marriage because of the separation but the only happy one here is her since she doesn't have to share Dad at all.