1. Told me that the only reasonFDH was with me was to get a piece of@SS and that he would never marry me bcuz I'm nothing more that a c%nt
2. She blackmailed FDH into marrying her. Told him if he didn't he would NEVER see son again
3.Tells SS that her bf (1 in a long list of boy toys) is more of a man than FDH------in every sense of the word, and puts bf Abbi her own son!!!

NEXT

1. BM made fun of me when I miscarried
2. BM let SDs get molested
3. BM told DH that he'd never see the kids again right after we married

NEXT

1. Planted a gun in DH's car, accused him of driving 250 miles to rape her, then had him arrested.

1. Threatened my bios

1. Told skids I don't want them to see their father

1. Told the 2 skids someone else was their father since they were little (while still married to my DH). Snuck behind DH's back so the skids could have "visitation" with the guy -- her "abusive" ExH. Did this for YEARS, to the point that SD asked DH for a paternity test when she was 18 so she could stop wondering.

2. Left the hospital without telling anyone an hour before SD then 20 gave birth because she found out SD wanted the actual moment of birth to be just SD and her BF (now husband). Didn't call to make sure SD and new baby were ok, and didn't see them for a week. Ignored new baby when she finally saw SD and when asked if she was going to come look at her new granddaugher, she replied "What granddaughter?".

3.But worst of all, she has the whole family somehow convinced all of this is ok behavior, and everyone just excuses it all with "Well, it's just Mom" "That's how Mom is.." How about, Mom is F%T&^d up and we should stop making excuses for her behavior?? Oh, that's right, I'm the evil stepmom, I'm held to a different standard!!
(sorry, starting to get a little bitter at the end there!)

1. Stood up SS for his visit on Christmas Day and on New Year's Day in the same year (she was pissed she didn't have the "eves"). He was 11.

2. Threatened to call the cops on SS and threw him outside in the middle of winter because he did his math homework in pen. He was 10.

3. Told SS that I couldn't possibly take good care of him (we were custodial) since "she can't have babies so she can't be a mother to anybody." He was 13. He cried hysterically.

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1. BM told the children that for the year while DH and I were deployed, we were committing the Abu Graib atrocities that were in the news. SS11 thought his dad was a murderer and torturer for a long time after we got them back.

2. Countersued DH for child support and it's expensive to this date resulting in a chunk of my savings to come out.

3. Told SS11 and SS9 that she will always be their mother and that if they love me, it is disloyal to her. By damaging THEM, it is the worst she has done to me.

NEXT

SpermIdiot decisions.

1. Abandoned his GF-17 (my wife) and then 10mo old baby in a nasty travel trailer out in the middle of the country to run off with his 16yo GF. SpermIdiot was 22.

2. Ran away from the police when he was pulled over for a traffic violation and left the baby (SS) in the car. The police found a gun in the baby's diaper bag.

3. Took the baby to a party (GF was working) and loaded him up with whiskey when the baby would not stop crying.

1.) Kicked me out of the NICU when SD was on the ventilator

2.) Killed SD by blunt force trauma to the head

3.) Refused DH any of SD's ashes after the funeral

Nope, not in prison. She and her BF at the time were the only tow in the house. BM left for 45 mins, so the cops can't say "for sure" that she did it...so no arrests have been made. Yeah, DH doesn't operate that way, but I do }:) Believe me, that b*tch better be glad that I don't live in the same state as her! Police aren't doing anything so we contacted the DA and we still haven't heard anything. If nothing still gets done were are going to the Attorney General and the media.

Yep, she killed her own child. but in her words, "I don't know what happened" :sick:

let's see...1)threw her pregnant (24 yo) daughter out of the house and took her car because she would be marrying the baby's father and "leaving" mommykins alone(note..I took SD in and then I was the bad guy)
2)was trying to make an appt for an abortion for SD(without her consent) 3)Has accused DH about 643840476 times of "never" doing anything for his D..in front of the D, hmmm..seems DH paid for half of school, books, all health insurance, trips, and had her at least 4 days and nights a week. SD used to tell DH his "1/2" of any payments was much more than it actually was so she could pocket the extra(until THIS bitch came along and asked for the actual bills)Oh yeah, can I add a #4..took her 10 yr old on dates and told her she could never tell her father(they were still married)

This week:

1. Referred to me as BF's "piece"

2. Caused BF to miss time with his kid because she can not share correct information in a timely fashion.

3. Told BF's son that it is his dad's fault that he can't go to Disney on Ice with her mom because dad messed up which weekend is his, when in fact it is dad's year to do the big birthday party, so we're doing it on our weekend and her mother bought Disney on Ice tickets without asking.

I'm glad I don't have to deal with her.

1. Dragged SS away from me when she ran into us on the street because I am not allowed to be around her son.

2. Came to DH's house at 2 AM and woke up SS to take him back to her house because she decided she didn't want SS to spend the night w his dad.

3. Told MIL she could come pick up SS to take him out for the afternoon and then shut the door in MIL's face when she went to pick SS up from BMs house. She told MIL that her son couldn't go anywhere w her because she was a slut.

BM#1

1. Let SD13 (SD5 at the time) believe someone else was her father, then when they broke up showed up at DH's doorstep with their 5 year old and said "here is your kid" SD was so scared and shocked she messed herself.
2. Refers to DH as sperm donor, told SD13 that her father hated her and wished she were aborted.
3. Gave SD13 to her mom for the first year and a half of her life and had the nerve to tell SD that DH didnt want her

BM#2

1. Refused to let SD5 see her dad for 3 months straight when SD was 3. Wouldn't answer calls, wouldn't return messages...just completely ignored him. DH missed his daughters 3rd b day. When he finally got to speak to BM she blamed him and said that she didn't think he cared. He had been to see SD twice a week or more every week since her day of birth. She was just trying to hurt him. She succeeded and he pretty much did everything she asked on a moments notice after that. It took months for me to get him to get his backbone back.
2. Told DH he was to stupid, not capable, not equipt, to be a suitable father so often that he began to believe it and struggles a lot with his parental roles because he 2nd guesses everything so much and has low confidence in himself.
3. Although BM has improved greatly over the last year and a half....she still blames any and all issues SD5 has on what must me DH's negative influence. (insert eye role here)