Hi this is my first time blogging so bare with me. I'm a 29 yo mum to my 9 yo BD and step mum to my 9 yo SD. I have been with my partner for 5 years.

I feel that you need to know a bit of background history to advice me, so here is my attempt of cutting it short. 

BD- lives with us for 5 days a week and is at BF house 2 days a week-Monday and Tuesday.

SD- lives with BM Monday-Thursday and our's Friday-Sunday

My partner and I work 5 days a week and have every weekend free with both the children.