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Gwen's picture

Submitted by Gwen on Thu, 07/26/2007 - 9:12pm

If you've followed my story, you'll know why this is music to my ears: DH and BM are in a custody mediation today, submitting and discussing statement of issues, and BM has devoted some of her precious statement to ME (c'mon) and the complaint is in part that I won't allow her to hug me!!! And the mediator says to BM: "you have boundary issues."

THANK YOU VERY MUCH.

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Submitted by Hesitant on Thu, 07/26/2007 - 9:20pm

That is the funniest & saddest thing I've read all day!

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Submitted by Sebbie on Fri, 07/27/2007 - 9:43am

Lovers do not finally meet somewhere, they were with each other all along.

That is just to damn funny!!!!!!!!!!

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Submitted by justwantpeace on Fri, 07/27/2007 - 11:00am

Does she expect you to cook and clean and do laundry and have sex with her too? Does she not realize you married her Ex~ Not her. How funny. I would have jumped up and said, come give me a big ol' fat hug then if it will make you feel better. Maybe she just wants to cop a feel???? Sorry, I am feeling a bit goofy today.

Making the decision to have a child is momentous~ It is to decide forever to have your heart go walking outside of your body~

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Submitted by Nymh on Fri, 07/27/2007 - 11:04am

Her and my SS BM need to get together. I'm thoroughly convinced that she's secretly a lesbian who is madly in love with me and that's why she won't leave me alone!

*~So sayeth Nymh~*

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Submitted by laughterandtears on Fri, 07/27/2007 - 11:17am

It's about time, right!!! YAY! Maybe BM will finally stop trying to put her coodies on you ;).

~THE EXERCISE THAT REALLY CHANGES YOUR LIFE IS WALKING DOWN THE AISLE~

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Submitted by Gwen on Fri, 07/27/2007 - 11:55am

You guys are funny Smile I can't describe how good it felt to hear that. The more I hear about the mediation, the more validation I get. I say something and DH turns and looks at me and says "hey the mediator said exactly that". It's validating and frustrating all at the same time.

Ultimately, it's a minor victory. What I really want is for my DH to have more time with his kids, for their benefit and his.

P.S. I never told her not to hug me. Even though it made my skin crawl I didn't think it was worth getting into--remember, I HATE drama. She found out b/c I told DH that I thought it was ridiculous and he, in a particularly dense moment, decided to pass it on. (DH and I have had many, many discussions since about why he must never, ever say what I say to him, to her, for so many reasons!)