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The Storm that is my life has now been upgraded to a tornado

halo1998's picture

So...I went MIA since work decided now would be a great time to have issues.  That resulted in Halo working this weekend to move things around.  The lucky part..the people I had to work with are great and all have fantastic sense of humors so it makes the work go quickt.  This in contrast to the people had to work with two weekend ago...no sense of humor but a HUGE sense of entitlement/superiority.

Pupper decided to have an incident on Friday as well.  Not too bad of seizure but still.  Poor guy...Upside I was at work and my DD and DH had to handle it.  I will say my DD really came through and was a big help.  She also finished writing her first novel this weekend so I'm so proud.  

SD...oy...poor DH. DH has been saying for a few months he detected in a shift in SD.  He is worried she is going down the same path as SS..aka GWR.  I was hopefull he was wrong...yea no DH was right.  

Its Saturday night and DH has played uber driver to SD and her friends....with the last ride being to her friends house for sleepover.  Cool...4 girls..one sleepover...friends mom has my utmost admiration...as that is NOPE for me.  Too much noise, etc.  Que midnight and DH wakes me up telling.

I have to go get SD from friends house.  I have no idea what is going on but SD said they were in trouble and everyone had to go home. Okay......this should be interesting.

DH gets home from getting SD and says...

According to SD Friend D brought a bottle of vodka and friend D was acting drunk so Friend N's mom searched her bag and found the vodka bottle. So we all had to go home...but SD didn't drink any.   

Halo's bullshit meter just hit red but it is now 1 a.m. and I'm in no mood to discuss this further.

Now...I'm not buying the bs that SD didn't drink any.  Wasn't born yesterday or last night. I told DH text friend N's mother and get her version of the events.  Also, point blank tell SD you will be talking to friend N's mother and she better come clean before you do.

SD doubles down on the story.....DH talks to Friend N's mom...and SD was/is lieing out her @ss.

The real story.

SD and Friend D stole the vodka from the local grocery store when they went there for energy drinks.  Friend D swears its was SD that stole the vodka.   SD and Friend D were both drunk and falling down but she is pretty sure the rest of crew drank some as well.  Friend N's mom noticed the weird behavior and then searched the room and found the bottle. At that point Friend's N mom was having a panic attack as she is divorced from Friend N's dads and is involved in a nasty custody battle at the moment and cannot have this stuff happen.  Otherwise she would have talked to DH that night.  

Friend N's mom also forwarded a video of the girls drinking at what she thought was our house.   Nope...it was at Beaver's house two weeks ago.  We had to tell Friends N's mom that is was Beavers house not ours...so that was fun.  

So...SD not only drank, she stole and lied all in one day. DH is furious.  He made SD call Beaver and tell her what happened and the fact that they drank at her house.  DH also forwarded the video to Beaver.  Beaver's reaction was that it was interesting and she didn't know how much they drank since the bottle didn't appear to be used. DH had to tell her SD and her friends had refilled it with water. 

SD is now grounded here...she no longer has her phone, ipad or laptop.  If she needs the laptop she has to ask and use it in front of us.  Her friends have thrown her under the bus (although I tend to think Friend D was the mastermind of this...and SD went along)...and "supposedly" SD is ground at Beavers.  Whaterver TF that means....

Unfortunately, the slipping grades, the drinking, etc...is the EXACT same path GWR took before he noped out of here.  Beaver will use this as the look..."DH turned on you SD...he is just way to harsh for punishing you for one itty bitty mistake."  

So...we have upgraded from a thunderstorm here to about an F3 or F4 tornado.  

Also..any bets on how long before SD nopes out of here..I said 6 months...DH gave it 3.  

DH is very saddened by these events..but I think he has just resigned himself to the fact his kids are tainted by Beaver and will probably never be in his life like my two kids are.  But still..I feel so bad for him....while he is a scattered brained ADHD mess...I still love him and wouldn't wish this on anyone.....well maybe not anyone...Beaver I wish her the worst with the intensity of 10,0000 suns.

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advice.only2's picture

I'm really sorry to read this, I am always ever hopeful that the one parent who actually tries will win out in the end, but so far it never seems to happen.  I'm curious how SD handled the grounding at your house?  Also how did she react to seeing the video?  When we grounded Spawn for posting naked photos and shut her phone down to calling or texting only, Meth Mouth rewarded her by purchasing her a brand new iphone on her own plan so we couldn't touch it.  

tog redux's picture

Ugh, sorry. My SS PAS'd out about a week before his 15th birthday. That seems to be the age they decide they can do whatever they please including stopping visits with Dad. 

The_Upgrade's picture

Has anyone pointed out to SD that she's heading down the same path as her brother as a wakeup call? 

TheAccidentalSM's picture

My head says she'll "nope out" immediately but my heart hopes she realises that GWR's life is awful.

(((hugs))) to you and Mr Halo.