So after all the drama yesterday DH texted me and said lets go to dinner alone tonight and talk. We did and things went really well. He listened to my concerns about our time when ss5 comes over and our totally different parenting styles. We agreed to try to better communicate before things get out of hand. He apologized for saying we should split because that's the last thing he'd ever want. So Ya good evening.

On to the vent, so BM has now twice texted DH stating she has to go out of town for work and wants to switch days around so she doesn't lose a day. Last time DH told her that he was keeping his normally scheduled days but would be happy to take ss two extra days while she's away. She totally flipped saying that he's punishing her and ss and that she'd risk losing her job over losing a day with ss...wow very responsible. Ok 2 weeks later another text stating now she needs to go for ONE day and wants to change days around..of course DH will reply the same..he'd love an extra day with ss...NOT once has he ever gotten an extra day for anything EVER but many times she's taken ss out of town or for various things asking him to give up his days. She's so immature I can't stand it.