Release date for DH
Well DH will be released the day after Christmas which means I have to explain him missing Christmas with SS7 to BM. This ought to be joy and heaven on Earth! NOT! I texted BM on Saturday to tell her that DH would miss SS7's cub scout Christmas party and she was quite the pill. Wanted me to personally deliver his uniform to her at a specific time. Sorry BM! I wasn't home and I DON'T jump when you say how high. AND she called DH's grandmother and got her all riled up and worried resulting in more damage control for me to handle. But of course BM lied and said that Grandma called her, not the other way around. I truly cannot stand BM and her freaking drama!
She still isn't going to get any info out of me. And I plan to tell her, via text because I won't speak with her on the phone, that she shouldn't call grandma and gossip with her and get grandma all upset. Such a shit stirrer!
Hopefully everything will be back to normal by next weekend and DH can get on with his life and taking better care of himself.
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You are not going to tell her
You are not going to tell her the truth are you?
Hell no! She's an immature
Hell no! She's an immature vindicative little bitch. She has withheld visitation, screams on a quarterly basis for more CS, and basically did whatever she wanted until the last year or so. DH has been putting his foot down and making progress with her and SS7. She hates it because it continually reminds her of her "mistake" marriage. Whatever.
I pray you don't tell her
I pray you don't tell her ANYTHING. She can find out when your DH tells her. I wouldn't have any furthur contact with her honestly.
So what did you decide about
So what did you decide about the uniform?
I didn't take the uniform
I didn't take the uniform because I wasn't home anyway. I was gone all day and didn't get home until after the party would have started. If I had been home I would have told her she could pick it up.
So you would have left work
So you would have left work and ran home to get a uniform to do BM a favor?
I wasn't home so I couldn't
I wasn't home so I couldn't have got her the uniform even if I wanted to. I wouldn't intentionally do something to hurt SS7. If arrangements could have been made I would have do so. My early comment was more in reference that BM just demands what she wants and expects everyone to drop everything and do her bidding. Not this girl. If I had been home, sure, she could have picked it up.
It's because of BM's less
It's because of BM's less than stellar commitment to her children and doing what's right is why DH put SS7 in scouts in the first place. He hasn't been exposed to social settings and therefore his social skills are very immature for his age. He has only been around his siblings who are 2 and 4. BM makes no extra effort to think about what's best for her children, just what's best for her - which usually involves someone else doing the work. Heck, her husband is working two jobs now and she still makes him cook dinner, go buy groceries, etc. But that's his problem. If he can't stand up to her well then he can work himself to death. If I could have gotten the uniform there I would have.
I agree. She doesn't need to
I agree. She doesn't need to know. His behavior hasn't been the best but he has hid it well from SS7 and I never let him do anything that would endanger SS7, like driving him after he had drank. I do the driving for my own safety and the safety of others. I'm just happy that he finally got help and now the mood swings and depression will be dealt with in a healthy way.
He has done wonderfully so
He has done wonderfully so far. He made appointments to see his doctor and counseling appointments and hasn't touched a drop. He's drinking coffee like it's going out of style though but that is fine with me!