Where SS8 lied to his mother about having been 'beat up' by my bioson 13...

So... I find out this weekend how it all went down... BM asked SS to clean his room... (A week after Grandpa/or I left two fingermark bruises on his side from wrestling/tickling him)... SS tells BM he can't because he's in too much pain... as my BS beat him up... so BM see's the bruises and calls my DH...and also tells DH that SS said he told his dad but his dad didn't care... so DH rushes over to BM's house to comfort SS and tell him he cares about him, and everything will be ok.

I almost vomited.

So...my inlaws came for the long weekend as it was our daughters 2nd birthday yesterday. We had a 'talk' with SS8 prior to their arrival stating that we expected him to follow the rules while his grandparents were here (because he normally ignores them), and that if he didn't he would pay for the consequences after his grandparents leave... it didn't turn out too bad besides his usual "I've now turned into a 2 year old because my grandparents are here" thing... but whatever... but I need to vent about a few things..because folks..this is the only safe place to do so.

So..for the last little while SS8's room smells like urine... I mean I guess it always does a little because he's either pee'd his bed or his pants ... but we have a plastic sheet on the new mattress...and he changes his sheets everyday..so unless there is wet pee laundry in his basket the pee smell is not usually too strong.. but anyways..for the last few weeks it has been. I've cleaned it..I windex'ed down his plastic sheet in case it was holding the odor etc etc.

I know... Christmas is over, it's a brand new year... but I haven't been on the site much, so thought I'd vent about Christmas. So, for anyone that reads my blogs you've probably heard me mention how my ss8 is growing 'out' and not 'up', and how he is completely inactive and obsessed with food...