We were all ready for our day in court on the DeNovo hearing on November 6th and the review hearing on the 15th.  BM knows she's in deep sh*t with the GAL for the medication lapse.  But this scum of a human being was ready with her move to get some time and distance from her latest misstep...

She had her lawyer file for an adjournment, the day before, citing that BM recently suffered a seizure and was not well enough to participate in court.  No other details.  The judge granted the adjournment....so now we wait until January 29th for the next court date.

In my state, if you have a seizure, you can't drive for 90 days.  BM doesn't know this, doesn't care, or didn't have a seizure.  We saw her driving - with SD on November 10th and 12th.  Contacted the GAL and raised the concerns.  BM tells GAL she had waited 3-4 weeks after her seizure to start driving and that she was never told by her medical provider she couldn't drive.  Weird.  I guess that doesn't really make her seizure all that recent?  Even still, BM was driving on October 30th when I took SD for the exchange.  It's all BS...all of it.  GAL told BM she is not to drive with SD until she is medically cleared.  Yeay!  BM's lies are starting to stack up, and we could not be happier for this.

I am chomping at the bit to get DH's lawyer to file some more effing motions, but she's being cautious.  I don't agree, but its not my lawyer.  At the very least, I would be contacting BM attorney, telling her that her client is a liar, and we will expose her in court.  I want to file for attorney fees, her medical records, cancelation of spousal support, and more motions of contempt....but the reality is, we have to wait for the DeNovo.....the commissioner won't hear anything new until that is decided first.  So, we keep documenting and waiting.

BM then tried her hand at manipulating pick up and drop off over Thanksgiving - you know because she can't drive now and it is because of him who told on her.  He agreed to the pick up change, but not the drop off.  BM threw a hissy fit, but ultimately made arrangements for someone to pick up SD....funny how she figures her sh*t out when a boundary is set.

Im super proud of my guy though.  He is learning that he doesn't have to bend to her every whim, and no longer takes her word vomit personal.  He is setting some boundaries with BM, and taking back his life and mental well being.  There might be hope for him and his daughter yet!!