Hi...I'm new to this site...I am engaged. We love each other much. He has a 13 year old daughter. She started living with him about 8 months after we meet. Her mother is in AA and suffers from bi-polor and the 13 year old had to move in with us. We always got along very well until about 5 months ago. Her dad is afraid that when his x gets out of the rehab that hiw daughter is moving in with her. So he is giving her what ever she wants. She talkes to him like crap. She tells him to shut up and when he says what ever. He just lets her get away with it.