So I've been actively trying again. Trying to get along with everyone. Including my SD in things again, in my life & with my extended family. DH just made a plan with BM to switch drop off spots. We never ask for anything different unless there's an emergency. DH constantly going out of his way for pick ups & drop offs, but she nearly never does. BMs going to a friends tonight, so can the drop off time change & the spot change. He says ok. Not a word to me before changing things. Am I overstepping, thinking if it involves my time I should be consulted?