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Does Karma Ever Catch Up with BM?

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Submitted by JCarter on Mon, 03/20/2023 - 4:37am

So in the last month, both SS26 and SD24 stopped responding to DH. His relationship with SS has been strained for some years. He had been holding onto anger toward DH after he got his girlfriend pregnant. The relationship was over before the baby was born. He was in the Marines at the time and his contract was up when the baby was just 2 months old. So, he moved back to his home state and is getting married to a girl from his hometown now. He has been to see his daughter maybe 4 times since she was born 3 years ago. When all of this happened he stopped talking to DH.

Adult Stepkids Randomly Ghosting their father

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Submitted by JCarter on Tue, 02/28/2023 - 6:35am

A little background, my husband was 17 when he got his first wife (22) pregnant with a son. He got married and enlisted in the military before his 18th birthday. That was the best way that he knew how to support his new family. Within 2 years HCBM was pregnant with child # 2. Shortly after the second child, a daughter was born, they divorced. He was 19/20 at the time. 

Christmas Blues

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Submitted by JCarter on Tue, 12/20/2022 - 11:12am

I don't understand why I even care that my DH's kids don't speak with him much. I should be happy that I get him all to myself. He bought his daughter a few items for Christmas. She's 24, single, I'm pretty sure she's never had a relationship. Her mother and her have not had the best relationship over the years. I thought she was close with my husband. SD lived with us for about a year and a half after she graduated from college. She really did not want to live with her mother. 

Hypocrisy

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Submitted by JCarter on Thu, 12/15/2022 - 9:01am

So I totally forgot that I set up an account here, I think I just need a space to vent to someone besides my husband. Since I last wrote 3 years ago....where has the time gone??? My SD24 moved out about a year and a half ago  first on her own, then she ended up moving back to TN when she ran out of money. My SS26, was in the Marines and got his girlfriend pregnant at his first and only base he was stationed at. After his 4 years in the Marines, he decided to move back home to TN from CA. His daughter had just been born a few months earlier.