So not a peep from BM or SD following DH talk with SD about all her drama, tantrum and disrespect she imposed the whole week of Christmas. Before Christmas BM was already asking DH " what are your NYE plans" ( SD likes attend SIL NYE party and will yet again use DH as a taxi) I already knew what BM was getting at even tho it was none of her business what our plans were. DH ignored her question and there has been zero talk of it. We are not going to SIL house for New Years Eve. We got some meat to grill and I bought some snacks and kiddie punch for the kiddos and we plan to play games and relax ! I am excited about it! Drama free ! DH also told SD to not ask him anymore about picking her up from anywhere unless it's when he is meeting BM. He will not be getting her from BM ex house or BM mother . Especially if she is not even planning on spending time with DH