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Just a little update
Well it's been about 2 weeks since the weekend from hell, well actually it was like a month long drama fest with SD and BM since Christmas. DH has not talked to SD15 since he sent her his last text saying he would not continue to go back and forth with her and hear her just blame him or me for basically everything . SD kept texting after that and she even accused me pretending to be DH and texting her because of course DH would never say such thing ! She really needs help, DH finally Had enough of years and years of horrible behavior.
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Back to being blamed by in laws
So of course, naturally when things go wrong with SD and DH, it is some how my fault! DH still has not replied to SD15 after she basically took no blame for completely starting chaos this weekend between DH, herself and BM. She has not apologized. Heck she didn't even acknowledged she has been lying to BM about what goes on in our house even when DH called her out on it. She kept texting him saying how he needs to changed and why can't he treat her better and how she is just trying to talk to her dad... this sounds like she is only saying that to maybe use in court later ????
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Confrontation at the drop off
My stomach is so upset by the stress caused by both SD and BM! My god is has been horrible ! Between the outburst yesterday from SD15 getting upset because we won't put DD5 on the top and allow her to sleep in the bottom bunk I am just done! Today took the cake and today DH said that's enough! We went to MiL house for her birthday party . BM was already texting DH early for a pick up time .
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Hell weekend OMG
It has been a while since we had one those weekends with SD 15 and she is back with her attitude and entitlement in full force to disrupt whatever little peace we had ! SD has not stayed the night here in months but when she did there was never an issue and she never had a attitude like today. I was actually enjoying her being around, yea not so much now! First last night, she stuffed some spare baby blanket I put in one the spare drawers I. DD5 already stuffed PJ drawer. SD has some drawers here but not because she likes to keep clothes here to wear here.
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New year and already here we gooooo
So SD15 has told DH that she will be coming this weekend ( DH weekend to have her ) . The drive for DH if he leaves after rush hour traffic (after 5:30pm) is about 2 hours . Since BM has moved which has been about 4 years I think, DH has always met her around the same time which is can be a little late but the drive is a bit far . The earlier he has met BM was 7pm but with construction going on constantly he normally meets her around 8 .
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It’s gonna be a great NYE update
So not a peep from BM or SD following DH talk with SD about all her drama, tantrum and disrespect she imposed the whole week of Christmas. Before Christmas BM was already asking DH " what are your NYE plans" ( SD likes attend SIL NYE party and will yet again use DH as a taxi) I already knew what BM was getting at even tho it was none of her business what our plans were. DH ignored her question and there has been zero talk of it. We are not going to SIL house for New Years Eve.
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I have reached my limits!
I'm sure most of you are aware of the absolute crap show SD15 pulled the whole week of Christmas. She has not apologized for her behavior nor did she even reach out to DH to even tell him Merry Christmas. I have had my fair share of limits with SD, I tried to be nothing but nice to SD and I got pooped on, I tried disengage and it worked for a while until crap like this comes up and it absolutely unavoidable. I know it's not my right to tell DH that SD is not allowed here due to her behavior but I really really don't want to be around her.
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Update! DH caved !
I was hoping he wouldn't after he told BM to figured out how SD would get to our house Sunday , Monday or today at SIL HOUSE . This whole time not a word from SD at all!!!! Well I just knew that BM would hold at because she knew DHxwould cave and get SD 15 even tho BM told DH f you, and SD has not even bothered to text or call DH. SD knows that today we got to her aunts house . Well of course DH sends SD a message and she said she wants to come but now we have to drive out of our way to meet to get her because SD is staying with BM MOM.
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Update. Well BM went off the deep end
As I knew she would and show her true hateful self. Can you believe after all this shit someone dropped SD 15 off at the ex husbands house and just expected DH to get her . BM made her mother drop off SD after her mother went and drove maybe 2 hours to meet her ( yes, all because SD wanted to go to this party) both BM and her mother made all the arrangements ( BM is sitting comfort at home and barking orders) while DH was at his appt so he didn't reply until he got out .
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Hi me again, is this insane ?
Sorry I'm hogging the board this weekend but man BM is really just pissing me off and I have to vent! After taking a 2 year hiatus from dumping SD around the holidays she is back! The original plan was for BM to come into town ( they live about 3 hours away) on Monday after SD Dr appt. SD15 was gonna stay with us Monday night and Tuesday night and BM would get SD Christmas Day sometime. Well now BM is trying to find people to get SD and bring her to our house today ?!?!
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