Well maybe I'm jumping the gun a bit.... Christmas weekend is around the corner BUT after my talk with DH Sunday he has stoped chasing SD and ignoring BMs text even though she is trying so hard to be relevant ( it's her annual dumping of SD holiday) i was having a conversation with DH Sunday about my moms boyfriends daughter who is the very definition of a 30 year old Mini wife !!! I mean the women is bordline psycho gf with her dad and it's gross! It just so happens that everything my

moms boyfriend is doing is the same exact thing DH is doing with SD14 so it just works out that I'm actually talking about DH when I am talking about my moms BF lol. So anyways my moms boyfriend daughter who I'll call CRAZY is pulling the same games and SD 14 and saying she is"depressed" and it's her daddy's fault . She what does he do? He calls her daily, he drives 3 hours both ways to see her , then once he gets to CRAZYs apartment she does not answer a text or phone call!!!! I said see DH she just wants to be chased , my mom her Bf to back off CRAZY and so far it's peaceful for now. DH agrees that CRAZY is a psycho ( hmmmm imagine that) and needs a man in her life ! After that convo he has not made a single phone call or baby text to SD14. He called her on Friday which of course she yet again did not answer and I guess he decided that was it! BM now keeps texting him videos and photos of SD ( he didn't ask for) and yesterday she randomly texted him SD schedule ( again he did not ask) and BM just texted him the same schedule just a few days ago. All texts DH has not replied too! I know that has got to kill BM since she is trying to hard to keep SD and herself relevant so she can casually mention how SD all the sudden wants to come stay with daddy for the whole holiday break .... I think it has really opened DH eyes to see how CRAZY turned out after all the years she has been babied and treated like a queen. I know he does not want that for SD . Let's hope Christmas comes without any drama from BM or SD