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Submitted by justwantpeace2 on Mon, 07/14/2008 - 8:48am

I have been a sm for 10 years. My skids no longer live at home as they have moved on with their lives. I found this site a few weeks ago and sure wish I had known about it when I did have skids living at home! I felt like I was the one messed up for a very long time! Like an alien in my own home! Now I see that it wasn't just me! THANK YOU!!!! I am not EVIL!!!! What a relief!!! I have to say that what I have been reading of you ladies, y'all are hilarious!!!! I am looking forward to reading more!

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Submitted by sam on Mon, 07/14/2008 - 8:58am

Welcome i think you have to have a sense of humour to a certain extent or im sure alot of us would be in a mental institute.

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Submitted by BabygotBack1988 on Mon, 07/14/2008 - 9:14am

welcome maybe you can give some of the others advise on how to last ten years lol

i was a SM for one to 3 boys two 9 and one 6 was a night mare he moved out 5 week ago and im still struggling

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life is a box of choclates you never know what your going to get (i always pick the coffe of the box what about you ) Blum 3

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Submitted by justwantpeace2 on Mon, 07/14/2008 - 9:19am

I don't know if I should give any advice because I don't think I survived it very gracefully!:lol: I will admit that there were times when I felt that I was REALLY close to the edge! It amazes me that I didn't end up in a funny farm! I credit my bkids with keeping me from losing it because they had no one but me to depend on.

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Submitted by Sita Tara on Mon, 07/14/2008 - 9:16am

How does it feel to have made it to the other side in one piece?!

"Om Tare Tutare Ture Mama Ayurpunye Jnana Putin Kuru Svaha"
~Sita Tara Mantra

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Submitted by justwantpeace2 on Mon, 07/14/2008 - 9:20am

I think that I am still picking up the pieces and I may have some missing! lol Wink

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Submitted by sarahbernheart on Mon, 07/14/2008 - 9:36am

congrats on surviving, now what about post traumtic stress syndrome
Blum 3

"Better a diamond with a flaw than a pebble without one."

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Submitted by justwantpeace2 on Mon, 07/14/2008 - 9:39am

I think I have that!:shocked: I sometimes feel like I just survived through a combat zone where I was the only enemy being fired upon!

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Submitted by Dreamer on Mon, 07/14/2008 - 12:57pm

After 10 years I'm ready for your advice!

~Don't fear the thorns among the Roses, but be greatful for the Roses among the thorns~

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Submitted by Sia on Mon, 07/14/2008 - 7:17pm

I was the only one who had survived 10 yrs of skids and bm hell. Though, I am still shell shocked...LOL. Welcome!

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Submitted by luvdagirl on Mon, 07/14/2008 - 7:40pm

11 years in....2.5 to go and I KNOW I am missing pieces, the looney bin has long since started to sound like a vacation, but it has helped me sooooo much to have these women and men here to make me realize I am still not crazy, or horrible and most of the ways I felt guilty for feeling were normal too- it's been a wonderful year here!

Welcome, come in, laugh til you cry and cry til you laugh-either way it works.

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