Crazy drug addicted mother drama
From what we keep hearing, crazy mother who lives 13 hrs away is telling people she's coming to take SD after school ends to move back up there. No proof of being off meth, no stable job nothing. So here comes the fight. If it's not one it's the other. SD doesn't mention her mother and has given up on trying to call her mother cuz she's always too busy. I feel bad. Am I a bad person for not really giving a shit what happens to the mom? I just want her out of our lives atm. It's always drama with her
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I would not be overly
I would not be overly concerned about the hearsay "plans" of a drug addict... she probably does not have the means to even begin to do what she is saying.
But.. does your SO have a custody plan?
Does SD still see her mother? (which must account for some of her behavioral issues to say the least!).
Just make sure that your SD
Just make sure that your SD understands that if her mother turns up unannounced at the school gate, under no circumstances is she to go with her.
This would literally be my
This would literally be my only concern, BM shows up and SD gets in the car... The rest is just talking out loud. She doesn't stand a chance of winning this in court.
Like cockroaches these BM’s
Like cockroaches these BM’s pop up, cause havoc, then scurry away, only to show up again to repeat the process. My DH’s ex is a meth addict and that’s pretty much how we lived our lives for seven years. She was constantly trying to get her paychecks…err I mean children back, but to no avail. Half to time she wouldn’t show up for court, the other half she would show up and just rant on and on about stuff that had happened 10 years prior
BM1 is like this, even to
BM1 is like this, even to this day and SS is 23!
No follow through but open ended promises and dreams of rainbows and sunshine.
She threatened to show up to our house about a year ago and I just told SS to tell her that I dare her to step foot on my property or come around my kids. -- She hasn't called him since.
Do not feel bad.
Your heartbreak for your SD having lost the BM lottery is a testament to you.
I had the same heartbreak for SS during his CO years. I still have hearbreak for him regarding the shallow and polluted end of his gene pool and he is approaching 31yo.
The Spermidiot never once called to speak with SS. Not one time in the 16+ years we lived under the CO. In fact, no one from the SpermClan ever called to speak with SS. They would call to fight with my DW, or arrange visitation travel, but... not one call to SS.
I have long hoped for a fortuitous meteor strike on a SpermClan family reunion purging that whole infleunce from my son's life in one fell swoop. A reunion not attended by my kid of course.