Okay, so since EX moved out, BB has gotten 10x worse. All of the coparenting counseling that did so much good has gone wasted and she's back to manipulating and lying and breaking the CO. I posted about a few incidents last week. EX has been to the police station three times in the past month to file reports on BB failing to drop SS off with him for various reasons. He spoke to his lawyer last week and they decided to file for contempt, specifically because of the incident where she refused to drop SS with EX because Ex took him to see the Transformers movie.

It was EX's year to have SS on the 4th of July. Because I am STUPID, I called to remind him. He did know, but BB of course told him that we had SS last year and this was HER year so EX would not be seeing him. That's a blatant lie, and we have emals from last year that prove it, so I told EX where they are and he retrieved them, forcing her to let SS be with his father. I felt a little dumb for having gotten in the middle, and I vowed that this would be my last time dealing with this again.

I've heard that manipulators are good at turning the tables and making their victims feel as if they are the guilty parties. Even knowing this, I can't help but question myself today and wonder if I really am as bad as STBX claims.

...the bitch strikes again, and STBX once again loses his sack.

So STBX has been staying away, great. His stuff is still around and his lease doesn't begin until 7/1. Fine. Long as he's not around, no big deal.