One Last ST Blog …

Not sure if y'all remember (I'd like to have selective amnesia about it) but a few years back, I had cohabitated and gotten engaged to a single dad with unbeknownst to me at the time - 2 clingy demanding kids and 1 hell on wheels, lazy, manipulative, scam artist ex spouse.

I left him because after MULTIPLE conversations, he thought I was going to play work mule, indentured slave to his failed former family, and use my resources to subsidize his trifling conniving ex wife.

I don't regret it at all. It HAD to be done so he could see how his lack of boundaries with his ex wife (heck and even his kids) was draining him to the point all I had was a shell of a man, bare minimal provisions for our household, and constant anxiety/ptsd/depression caused by his chaotic verbal custody "agreement"

I kept in touch with him and it's funny because all I could do was laugh when he said his ex wife (the one he continuously bent over backwards to avoid upsetting "for the sake of the kids") is now pregnant. LOL!!!

But here's the kicker .... this heifer asked him out on a date a couple of weeks beforehand and he declined allegedly.

Yall if that woman ain't the epitome of a high conflict (let me pin a baby on my gullible exhusband) reckless uterus

All I can say is I'm GLAD I moved out and on and don't have to be impacted. But it's still hilarious after I get over the slight annoyance that he tried and failed to set up some sort of one big happy family sister wife delusion with his jealous petty irresponsible beastly breeder.

Like dude YOU chose that. I would never. I tolerated her presence while I was engaged to him but if I was into polyamory I wouldnt ever stoop that low on the dating pool.

I feel bad for the taxpayers, him - if he's stupid enough to keep being a doormat for her needs / indirectly subsidize her new kid, the kid itself for being born in to a crappy lifestyle, etc

But oh well

Not my monkey not my show. My weekends are STILL peaceful and no annoying ingrate kids or ex wife disturbing my clean, tranquil space/demanding my time or money.

The B*tch Beck and Call service has been dismantled and all it took was another man clapping her flabby cheeks with the physical evidence another man is in her orbit for him to realize how foolish he is if he continues the service.

Too bad it took this long for him to come to his senses But this is typical single divorced Disneyland dad behavior

#BBCserviceclosed

#dustyhcbm

#triflingexwives

#missedconnections

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You not only dodged a bullet;

You not only dodged a bullet; you dodged a nuclear warhead! All the power to you! My God!

You can't put a price on

You can't put a price on peace!

I hope you'll bring your experience and wisdom to the new site. *give_rose*

You can't put a price on

You can't put a price on peace!

100%

I Love Your Story!

Your update made my day! It's great to hear you dodged a bullet and I agree with the comment, "You can't put a price on peace!"

I regret so much that I didn't turn around and run when I realized what DH was really all about. Oh do I suffer the consequences every day.....how I long for peace.

Good for you getting out

Good for you getting out before they wrecked your life.

I'm having to pull way back and let DH deal solo with his diablaSD's26&28. To his credit, he now says "no" to the diablas on a regular basis. He still lets them get away with more than I would prefer but he's generally good enough. He has been 100% done with BM for years now.

I am thanking Steptalk

For saving my sanity. Time has passed The stinking ones do not come to my home anymore, as they KNOW THEY STINK.... My partner’s granddaughter took her GCSEs and passed all of them but she knows her behaviour was bad. So does my partner who has finally acknowledged that his children in the UK had no manners to me and why I REFUSED to go to their homes

I hope to join you all on stepchat and wish you all especially Dawn, Aniki, She's Driving Me, Lilywoo, Rags and others the best for the future.

Great Report!

Yes, peace is priceless!! Glad you found yours!

The escape, living well, and watching the slugs flounder

can be strangely cathartic.

Kinda sad. But cathartic.

Congratulations on your escape. Just don't let him weasel his way back in. Hope-ium can keep contact where non should exist. That his XW is knocked up by someone else is likely not going to give this guy any clarity whatsoever. He will lament whatever he always has, will still be her shoulder to cry on. FFS, she called him for a date when she was knocked up. No doubt to try to put his name on the BC and nail him to another couple of decades+ of being her beck-and-call boy.

It is not unusual for serial multi baby daddy breeder BMs to play all types of games about having a baby daddy support some other guys spawn. One recent Reel I saw was a guy dropping off food for his kid and the BM refused to allow that because he did not bring food for the rest of her kids. He stood firmly on the "get my kid out here so I can feed them and I am not going to get food for you and kids that are not mine." Sadly, some prior breeder men have their version of this in trying to find a new mommy for their spawn and someone to take on paying their X for the prostitution installment plan CO elements. CS, alimony, etc...

So many fall for the guilt campaign.

SpermGrandHag attempted her version of it during our CO years. As the Spermidiot added 3 more oowl spawn by two more baby mamas the pressure mounted for DW to drop the CS requirement and help support those 3. Of course SS was part of the communication path for that. Nope. We gave SS the facts, rolled up the CO and beat the shit out of the Hag with it, and let them flounder. Our priority was providing for and defending the best interests of our kid.

The nugget of wisdom that comes to mind regularly for me in these situations is "Other than that Mrs. Lincoln, how was the play?" So many drink the fee fee drugged Kool-Aid of love while hitting the Hope-ium pipe hard that some day, the partner with the toxic baggage and a massive guilt complex will wake up.

The odds of that happening, are slim and none.

FFS, she called him for a

FFS, she called him for a date when she was knocked up. No doubt to try to put his name on the BC and nail him to another couple of decades+ of being her beck-and-call boy.

LOL!!!! His ass was too dumb to see the multiple long con games.

When insane BMs act like #lawayplanpr0stitutes

One recent Reel I saw was a

One recent Reel I saw was a guy dropping off food for his kid and the BM refused to allow that because he did not bring food for the rest of her kids.

THIS

Im all for helping the kids but these wreckless breeders have some audacity expecting men that not their husband to help them provide for kids they chose to lay down and create with another (equally reckless) man.

So many drink the fee fee

So many drink the fee fee drugged Kool-Aid of love while hitting the Hope-ium pipe hard that some day, the partner with the toxic baggage and a massive guilt complex will wake up.

The odds of that happening, are slim and none.

so True. It's super challenging to teach an old dog new tricks.

If they do change its long and slow process which most people don't want/cant endure

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