....after losing my sh*t by being negatively affected by Disneyland Dads lackadaisical free range gentle parenting style, I decided it was best to fully disengage (and refused to allow him to place a guilt trip on me for doing so)

I thoroughly enjoyed touring the city, indulging in delicious food, and catching up with family and friends. 
 

Thankfully they're back with their mother and my peace and sanity have been restored. 
 

I read about disengagement and I think it's better for me to do that most weekends until the time comes when I can reclaim my weekends in my own space.