Well, life in stepville have been ridiculous as usual.

Recap:

SS is almost 17 and not driving

DH and I had another baby girl 3 months ago, and our other daughter is 2. 

SS came around 3 times from June to October. 

Major drama: 

BM called DH back in April i think flipping out that this girls parents were harassing her.  Trying to make a long story short  SS16 was sneaking out and having unprotected sex with this girl in her house and her parents didn't know it. BM knew she was at her house though.  They were getting high at the park,  and the gf's parents found her paperwork from planned parenthood.... not pregnant thank goodness. 

Gf's parents were disgusted by BM of her lack of care,  and that BM let gf walk home at 1am from her house, which is not close.  BM would not give gf's parents dh's contact info, stating that ss and dh have a "strained" relationship.  Girlfriends STEPMOM wasn't buying it.... threatened to contact DH through the school so BM had to tell dh. 

I guess in text messages between ss16 and gf, ss was very disrespectful,  talked like a thug, etc. Said things like,  "as long as my dad doesn't find out" leading her parents to know they needed to talk to DH.

DH took off work to speak to gf's parents.  Bm could not be bothered.  DH wanted to sit down and talk to BM. Bm didn't want to talk without SS there (since she's made him her equal). Dh tried to come over to talk, BM was worried about her boyfriend not knowing (they lived together at the time and have a 1 year old)  and instead went to sleep. Wtf?

So we haven't heard from gf parents since.  They didn't want their daughter around SS and put her on lock down. They were appalled by him coming into their house in the middle of the night and didn't even know what he looked like.  He's lucky he didn't get shot. They go to different high schools so that's lucky. 

Ss16 usually only contacts dh when he needs a ride.  And it's always an emergency.  He was crying when his ride fell through to orientation and bm was at work, dh was an hour away golfing and dh sent mil to get him. Bm then texts DH "thanks for making a shittier day shittier. "  wtf? Something doesn't add up.  God knows what ss told her.  DH replied , wtf are you talking about,  my mom is picking him up?. No response. 

SS playing sides as usual. But really,  DH is suppsed to just be on call for SS's taxi needs? It wasn't DHs time.... didn't know we need to sit at home at all times just in case SS needs a ride somewhere.

Ss says getting his license is too hard.  No plans for college either. 

MiL is still always meddling. Her latest boundary stomp was buying a groupon for SS for online drivers ed. Didn't even ask DH if it was ok.  He hasn't been over to get it to him. I'm sure we'll see him at Xmas. Haha.

So BMs boyfriend moved out along with his 5 kids. He left his 6th child with BM. So BM says she needs SS there because he's so much help with the baby.  But yet here he tells dd2 she's annoying and hasn't even acknowledged that dd3months is alive. Loser.

SS16 spends his days playing video games and smoking pot, killing the little amount of brain cells he has left. 

I hope I explained everything right,  I had a lot of interruptions lol.