SD15 wants to make a party for the end of the summer,and she wants it in the house. SD9 this it's cool she'll be able to be at the party until 10pm and SD18 thinks it's amazing and wonderful and whatnot that her "lil sis" has the planning ability to organize such a big party, and that she has enough friends to make it "go through the roof" or something like that, can't get the right term.

well with the baby's room things were going ok except that it seems that SDs are going out of their way to be loud,noisy, obnoxious. they usually come home very late, like middle of the night type of late. for example, almost 2am,then go back out than come at 3 am and shit..now this has been happening for a few days now.
SDs come home to change or eat or take more money or whatever, they slam all doors possible as loud as possible, they yell, scream for NO apparent reason like "let's gooo" or "HEY SISTER" and things like that.

what do you think is an appropriate time to come home for a
1) 9 year old
2) 15 year old
3) 18 year old (whenever because she's 18 ?! or ?)

and the same question about their bedtime.

just wondering. my dh and i have different opinions on this and i'm NOT meddling with his parenting at least not in this department.. but i just wanted to know how you steptalkers feel about it.

so SDs came home to inform us of the decision and went back out. SD9 stayed in though. SD15 decided to give up her room, which just seems weird and a bit unreal to me because she's the one that always starts crap, talks her sisters into shit,etc. and she seemed pretty happy about it.
my husband is THRILLED, saying that she's such a selfless, lovely girl and as happy as i am to finally have a room for my baby, this seems fishy and strange to me. but whatever.