if you haven't read previous blogs, you might not understand, but if you have you will.

THAT LITTLE BITCH (SD) WANTS MONTHLY VISITS WITH MY SON!!!!!!!!!!!! As of right now we were able to keep it from happening, but i imagine BM's lawyer will file a petition to make the visits mandatory. If she wanted her little brother in her life she should have thought about that before she took her little fat ass to school and told everybody and their brother that my husband molested her! (This was a complete scam to go live with BM... it worked) She has locked my son in closets, flushed his head in the toilet, and punched him in the face. Before you start asking why i didn't do anything it's real simple. 1.) found about the hitting and the toilet after the fact and 2.) while we had custody of the kids if we blinked wrong BM or SD would report us to CPS saying we were being abusive. 3.) I couldn't get DH to see how horrible she was until she did this.

My son is now potty trained (he's 4 - we couldn't potty train him because he was afraid of the toilet. He was afraid of the toilet because she was flushing his head in it! SD finally admitted to doing it about 2 weeks before all hell broke loose. He will also sleep in his own bed at night for the most part now. When she lived with us, he wouldn't sleep in his own bed, because she would go get him and practically suffocate him to get him to go to sleep. We solved that problem by having with us at night.
Before you ask, i wanted to call the police and threatened it several times, but DH and my mother were adamant that getting the police involved would not be good - hindsight is 20/20.

Now she wants to see him again!!!!!???????? I am fully expecting papers in the mail for a court date to have to fight to keep her away from him!!!!!!!!!!!!

I love DH, but damn he had blinders on with this child. I begged him to get her out of our home when she started doing drugs. BM knew about this but decided it wasn't important information and low and behold she overdosed and almost died...

I honestly don't think there's anyway they will be able to get her visitation with my son, because there is nobody to supervise it unless they expect me to hand my 4 year old over to SD and BM for a few hours which is not fucking happening. The thing is, BM probably in all honesty doesn't care either way if SD (from here on out SB for stupid bitch) sees my son. That's probably a bond she would rather break but she's going to continue to push the issue to keep SB happy as well as to make our lives miserable. FYI... My son constantly asks to see his brother, (and he will) but has made it very clear to us that he is afraid of his "sister" and doesn't want to see her because she hits him and hurts him.