So I go to the gynocologist today (yes, this is important). As I'm checking in, I am asked to verify my secondary address and phone number. I don't have a secondary address and phone number, so you can imagine my shock when the secondary information listed belonged to DH's ex wife, or as i call her BM from HELL!!!!!!!!!! We can't PROVE it, but this is what we think happened.

just got through with court. DH's child support went up another $150 (800 now) and he wasn't able to sign his rights to his "daughter" away because they haven't decided if her SF is going to adopt her. He won't. DH doesn't see the point in giving her up if he's still going to be financially responsible for her. Of course, as it stands he can't see her thanks to the lies she told, and he's still financially responsible for her. This whole thing was about MONEY.

Well, my son will see sd14 for the first time since 18 April and i'm worried sick. While she lived with us all she did was torture him, but she whined about not being able to see him so the judge ordered bi weekly visitation between my son and SD14 and SS9. I'm so worried about how this is going to affect him, but there's nothing we can do. It sucks all around especially that CPS is just playing into this teenager's hand and doing their best to appease her even at the sake of BS3. Hopefully this will all be over soon enough and we'll never hear from this evil person again.

Sorry it's been a while since i've written, things have been rather hectic. Here's an update on my step parenting experience. We got custody April 18, 2008 because the biological mother is a piece of shit. We've had all kinds of issues to where she finally ended up getting supervised visitations. She still continued drinking and made our lives hell every chance she got. She told our original custody lawyer that she would get even with my husband by having my step daughter (who is 14 now) say that her father molested her.