I really don't know where to start since I am new here. I am glad I found a place to talk about things from my perspective. Well I guess I will start with this:
My bf's ex I have watched and picked the pieces up with the kids for five years now knowing that she cried in the court room how she couldn't live w/out her babies yet CHOOSES to live in a different residence with the latest bf/husband to be although she won custody for at least the last nine months. I have watched her scream and cuss at her daughter over trivial things, be critical constantly, call her a liar and shitstarter when her daughter comes to us w/ concerns. I so believe that family services should be involved but their dad does not want to put the kids through that which I understand but at the same time don't feel it is a healthy or safe environment. His daughter most recently said she is afraid of her bf when he drinks so she just stays at her grandmas where technically she lives (w/out her mother). Her brother is happy being wherever there are video games which is no better.