well no surprise but after asking if i would watch the kids for three days even though the ex doesnt want them spending time w/ me or picking them up from school she has the nerve to ask me if i will now pick them up from school; which remember she told the kids if i did so again she would have me charged w/ kidnapping; and watch them till her new husband gets off work to pick them up for...wait for it....the next month. :jawdrop: the damn gall.

ok what is it that exes don't get or understand that just because they are an ex does not give them the right to call w/out politeness or courtesy? WTF!!! and then to boot when they understand that the phone won't be answered if they can't find the ability to be an adult that was taught common courtesy they put their kids in the middle by having them call for them. is it really that hard to just grow the hell up and use the (by theory) manners we are all usually taught as children? ooooh; and it just makes us look bad and petty if we get mad about it.

I have been thinking about this for quite awhile now and maybe I'm just crazy. Well here's the scenario:

God I hate it went we come to that point of me being in tears out of frustration and anger. When their father is up in defense of sd as though she is being attacked because she is simply being asked a question when her br accuses her of something and he intervenes saying it's no big deal. Especially when she has been acting like she doesn't want to be here or t he loner attitude and I am left feeling like I am the damn enemy unless she is getting her way or what she wants.