You are here

Monchichi's Blog

My stepson

Monchichi's picture

It's been a long time since I have posted, so thought you all might like an update from Monchichi land.

After 2.5 years of "home schooling" at BM's insistence with the main focus being on Chucky's social skills, he is still in Grade 2 instead of Grade 4. His social skills are regressing by the month and he's now become angry, aggressive and defiant in how primary house hold.

May I state for the record that I warned everyone about this outcome and I don't miss the drama any more?

Surgery

Monchichi's picture

I had endocorporeal septoplasty and scopic sinus surgery Wednesday last week. Was meant to be under for 1.5 hours turned in to a 3.5 hour surgery from all the scar tissue in my nose that had to be cleaned out. My first stitches were removed today and I am healing decently.

Hope all of you are hanging in there.

Unikitty wisdom

Monchichi's picture

As repeated by Chucky. "I just need time to get used to Monchichi, I am not used to her yet"

My lovelies, after 5 years in November of living together and 6 years of having already dated, lived together and been married, he just needs to get used to me. Ha blooming ha.

Unikitty aka MIL

Monchichi's picture

Claims that Chucky has miraculously had a change of heart about BabyD (his half sister) and is most upset that he wasn't at her third birthday. This turn around is so miraculous in fact that it negates the fact he's tried to hurt her and tells us she irritates him ALL THE TIME right up until 9 days ago.

Unikitty feels so strongly about this that she has decided that my husband needs to make it a priority that Chucky is made to feel a party of MY family. Like I have not damn well spent 5 years trying to do this despite Unikitty and Jabba, although I have failed abysmally.

Numpty and Chucky

Monchichi's picture

I don't even know where to begin as my thoughts are so jumbled. I don't understand their dynamic. I can't see where the line of parent and child exists. I don't understand my husbands expectations with his son.

I can't grasp my husbands lack of parenting of this child. My husband literally has no clue what is going on in his sons life. He seems to be oblivious to how dirty his child is. He seems to think all he has to do is bog on the kid and his behaviour will miraculously change.

Chucky

Monchichi's picture

Stole SF credit card out his wallet and purchased gaming credits with it. When asked why he would do this his response is that they wouldn't have allowed him to buy them so he took what he needed on his own.